If you are happy by your own nature, now relationships will become a means for you to express your happiness not to seek happiness.
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If you have become a joy by yourself and you are forming relationships because you want to express your happiness, nobody is going to complain about you because you are in the process of expressing your joy not seeking joy from the other person.Expand ⇕
What most people are calling marriage right now is just a whole bundle of expectations about how the other person should make heaven for you. If you’re trying to extract happiness out of somebody, you will be disappointed.Expand ⇕
If you really want to have absolutely fantastic relationships.. you need to establish yourself as a joyful human beingExpand ⇕
Your marriage, relationships work to the extent you are willing to involve and give yourself to the processExpand ⇕
Relationships are not about extracting happiness but about giving joy to the other. Short journeys can be made alone, long journeys need reliable and resilient Relationships.Expand ⇕
Relationships have become a mutual exploitative process. You try to milk happiness out of somebody, somebody tries to milk something else out of you. If you take the responsibility of making yourself the way you want yourself to be.. you would be naturally joyful.Expand ⇕